Vets trained in acupuncture are increasing; surprisingly enough, many cats will tolerate when done with gentleness and sympathy. http://www.squidoo.com/catacupuncture
Animal communication has become a great resource for solving problems (major or minor), finding lost pets, accepting the loss of a beloved pet and simply letting them know how much they are loved. http://www.calmpet.com/
Unless your cat is being used for breeding purposes, she should be spayed. Many problems can be prevented by taking this precaution, and your cat will be happy as well. http://cats.about.com/cs/pregnancybirth/ht/oestrus.htm